Why It’s Worth Doing a Wedding First Look

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Couples often come to me early on in the wedding planning process and ask: “Is a first look actually worth it?” They wonder why they should go to the trouble of taking extra time in the wedding timeline when they will soon see one another walking down the aisle. As your wedding photographer, here is my take on whether or not you should do a wedding first look. 

To Look or Not To Look–Every Couple’s Question

You may be shocked at my answer to a question that is essentially asking if you should set aside time to take more wedding photos. My response is always the same: “Do whatever works best for you.” I always love an excuse to capture more wedding photography on your day, but my ultimate goal trumps this desire. 

More than anything, I want the day to include whatever personally feels right to the two of you. If this doesn’t include wedding first look photos then that is fine with me! But, I can make an argument as to why they are worth your time if you are considering it. Let’s take a look at reasons why going for first look wedding photos might be the missing piece to your day. 

How First Look Photos Are More Than a Photo Session

The primary benefit that a wedding first look provides is freeing up so much time within the wedding day timeline. It provides extra space to accomplish more activities before the ceremony allowing you to even be present for the entire cocktail hour with guests. These are just some of the other benefits that it includes:

  • Increased time is added for the two of you to spend together which removes so much pressure from the day since you’re already enjoying the time with your favorite person.
  • Family portrait photography and wedding party photos can be done before the ceremony which is a huge timeline win!
  • If the lighting isn’t too harsh, we can even do a five or 10-minute wedding portrait session of just the two of you to get some bangers in my camera roll a little early!
  • You can choose to do private wedding vows during your first look which allows you to say exactly what you want to your partner without feeling weird about your family hearing it. You can share a shorter version of the vows during the ceremony.

You will probably want to make the first look happen at the venue since it’s almost certainly prettier than your hotel. If you do select your hotel (assuming your venue doesn’t have a bridal suite), then you get to drive to the venue together. This is special in its own way! All of these choices are huge timeline wins that are a direct result of having a first look. 

Wedding First Look Ideas

The day is about the two of you and a first look puts you together even earlier. It also means getting a lot of the more complicated photos out of the way which frees you up for more party time later! My couples will adapt this time to fit them, adding personalizations to make it their own. 

Another version of the wedding first look is opting instead for what’s called a wedding first touch. First touches are when the bride and groom are holding hands back to back and still unable to see each other. The couple will read their private vows together and the “first look” still happens at the ceremony.

First touches are beautiful and can photograph really nicely. But, they do actually add a bit of stress to the wedding photography timeline. The couple still can’t see each other so we can’t accomplish any of the wedding party or family photos early. We also have to orchestrate getting around the venue without anyone catching sight of the bride!

It can still be a very sweet moment for the couple and that’s what really matters. I am for first touches, but they certainly don’t have the benefit of making your timeline any easier.

Take a Look at a Few Favorite Wedding First Looks

I can’t even try to hide it, I am very much pro doing a first look! My clients always tell me following a first look that they feel so much more at ease and excited for the day. These are some of those beautiful moments!

  • Logan & Dallan: had their first look at Arches National Park. We started with a first look then I found them a very secluded and beautiful place to do their private vows. We met up afterwards with the family for the ceremony.
  • Anna & Wilson: went for a first touch at the front doors of The Red Earth Venue. The couple held hands and took turns sharing their private vows.
  • Hollice & AJ: we did this adventure session the day before the wedding. The couple did not want a first look so instead they did private vows which were very special for them. It was also so special to watch! These were taken during sunrise at Dead Horse Point State Park with no one else present. It was very peaceful.

Let’s talk through whether a wedding first look is the right fit for you!

Vendors

Venue | The Red Earth Venue
Venue | Wild Blackberry Farms
Destination | Dead Horse Point State Park
Destination | Arches National Park
Photographer | Matt Davidson Photography

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